This process does not work for people with narcissistic personality disorder. - This is not a moral statement. It is a physiological one. The entire method is built on interoception — the ability to feel and read the signals of your own body. It is the instrument every step of this work depends on.
In narcissistic personality disorder that capacity is not merely diminished. It is absent, and it does not return. There is no inner instrument for this work to reach, and everything I teach would pass straight through.
This process is not intended for anyone in an acute mental health crisis.
If you are currently in an acute state — active suicidal thoughts, psychosis, an eating disorder in a dangerous phase, severe untreated depression, active addiction, or the immediate aftermath of a trauma that is still unfolding — this is not the right moment for this work. And I will tell you so. Not because you are too much.
Because your nervous system needs stabilisation and clinical care first — and that is a different job than mine.
This method works directly with the body's implicit memory. That work requires a system with enough capacity to hold what surfaces. Beginning it too early does not accelerate healing. It floods a system that is already at the edge of what it can carry.
If that is where you are right now, please get the care you need. Please let someone qualified hold you through it. This work will still be here. And when your ground is steadier, it will be able to do for you what it simply could not do today.
And one more thing, so that it is never unclear:
This is coaching. It is not psychotherapy, and it is not medical treatment. I do not diagnose, and I do not treat illness.
If you are working with a therapist or a doctor, keep working with them. Tell them about this work - they will be amazed🩷. That has happened thousands of times.